Sunday, January 23, 2011

Day 1 - Single life it is...

Day 1 - Your current relationship. if single discuss how single life is.

Whatever it takes, i have to admit that i'm SINGLE and still searching for the right person to come..hahaha, sounds over react but that's the fact that i have to rely on. i'm already 27 coming to 28 in another 4 months. it is not to say that either you are single or not u don't know how relationship works or you just go with the flow. i don't deny that i've been into several serious relationship and it ends up with a break off. at times i don't even know who to blame ??. is it me who's being so naive to hold my own relationship to the fullest or its the other party who are not so into it, never knows. for the past 2 years, i just go on with my perfect life and enjoying my social life with all the good friends i have all these years..

i'll probably just writes what came straight to my brain and calculates it and become words..Lol.here goes.

Freedom - being single is the most best thing that you will face in your social cycle. what i meant is you will have a total freedom. is not that by being single you are not free. but your life is not attached to someone else. you can go,do,see whatever,whoever and wherever without thinking that your couples would be asking question like FBI agent or spying on you 24/7.

Be independent - when you are single, you get to create the life that will be meaningful. you are able to do what is most important in your life without thinking that your other half would disagree or disapprove what you want to do in future. if you're single, you can pursue your passions, and you can do whatever that you feel important in your life and no one can be in control except yourself. if we have the other half, we tend to rely on them and when that happens, you become lazy and there will be no "stand on your feet". being single is training you to enjoy life to the fullest and manage oneself on its own.

Mood freaks !! - moods and emotions are always have been the factor for a person to be in a good shape or not. i do not say by being single, you wont get mood freaks, but it is more or less manageable by urself. being or stuck in a relationship will build up all types of feelings. been there done that, that's what o hold those words until now. your emotion will start to go crazy and all the things you do, you will go wild by thinking both sides of the party. whatever you want to do, u must think that maybe the other half might not satisfied or is not the ship as you. you become to conscious and carefully in whatever decision that you will make.

what ever it is if you find that "soul mate" are out there for you, just grab your guts and go on. in a relationship there are give and take. you just can't expect that one day you will find that perfect soulmate because we are humans and we do have our own faults and wrongdoings. i have been single all these while and still hoping that i could find a perfect person that can be my soulmate that i can share my bits of life and if that person is meant to be your soulmate, god will help and show the right path to get together humans to be lovers and ending our lives with peace and harmony.

4 comments:

SasHa Lee said...

YUpp..n conclusion ..Single life it is only the status..its describe a person who is strong heart to live n enjoy their life without depending on others..

pssst: like ur writing..;)

RIDZWAN AHMAD said...

thanks sha..do update with my blog ya...

amira.farhana said...

so youu are enjoying your single life. aren't you? ;)

RIDZWAN AHMAD said...

sort of..tp being single too long is'nt as good as people sees it..